Things going sideways for you? Funny how when someone says that things went sideways we automatically think that it's a bad thing...
I was out walking and I noticed two ducks that were swimming with the current. It was interesting to note how they were navigating the fast moving water. They used their feet like rudders to steer them and they didn't appear to be concerned with going in a straight line at all. In fact, at times it looked like they were purposefully going sideways, backwards and at one point they did a complete circle. Eventually, they made their way to their destination and moved out of my line of sight.
I guess it doesn't matter if you're on land or water...a linear path isn't the only way to get somewhere...
"Going sideways" commonly describes situations where things are not progressing as expected, or are not moving forward positively. It implies a lack of of progress and that can pertain to just about anything...in your career, personal and professional relationships, a project or even when it comes to building your confidence. The idea that something has gone sideways is not usually associated with good things.
Is it always a "bad" thing?
It's typically not something you would seek to have happen and...when it does? Here's a chance to reframe how you look at it. Rather than getting frustrated or looking at it as something that's getting in your way or stalling your progress, take a look at how you can use it to your advantage.
As the year starts to wrap up it's not unusual to reflect on the past 12 months. How was your year? Did it go to plan? Or did something not follow the linear path you were hoping for? This may be the perfect time to put a different spin on 'things going sideways' especially if you're lamenting that 2023 hasn't exactly turned out the way you wanted it to.
Sometimes things have to go sideways before they get back on track again.
This is a chance for you to look at that thing and maybe reframe it.
Are you ready?
Let's get to it...
Your challenge for the next FEW weeks...
As you round out the year and reflect, instead of thinking that you didn't meet your goal, what if you take some time to look at those things that didn't go to plan and reframe them.
What are the benefits of things going sideways?
Ask yourself: What is this here to teach me or help me with?
It's a chance to get reoriented.
This reorientation can be exactly what you needed to see your next step, because the next step isn't always right in front of you.
What perspective did you get that you wouldn't have if things had gone smoothly?
Approaching a situation from a different perspective may lead you to a piece of information that you didn't even know you needed!
Life is not a linear process! It's the curve balls that keep you on your toes and give you the contrast you need to get new information or to recognize what's right in front of you. What if your year has worked out exactly as it was supposed to and you're right on point?
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Warmly,
Ann
Things going sideways for you? That’s good!